Monday, November 12, 2012

Lounging with Kimball Gallagher

A thousand pictures worth a song
An altruist's journey. Come along!
Hear from voices that say then do
And show you ways which you can too.

Words and pictures and friends to make, 
A journey you would want to take, 
One thing remains before adieu
An invitation especially for you:

Please join us this day 
on November 15th. Mark it!
ISTAC is your way
From 3 to 5pm. Make it!


Find out more on Kimball Gallagher here:

Thursday 15th November 2012

3pm to 5pm
@ ISTAC, off Jalan Duta, Kuala Lumpur

** Entry By Donation ( Minimum RM 10)**


Saturday, November 3, 2012

Motivation 101

Salam everyone!

By the grace of Allah we are able to bring you an event this coming week!

In this session, Sheikh Zahir Mahmood discusses the true meaning of success and the habits possessed by truly successful people – those who, through revelation, were promised Paradise. Habits of Truly Successful People is not only an inspiring and soul energizing program, but a strong reminder and a road map to Islamic excellence.

 As Allah, The Most High said “Know that the life of this world is but amusement and diversion and adornment and boasting to one another and competition in increase of wealth and children – like the example of a rain whose [resulting] plant growth pleases the tillers; then it dries and you see it turned yellow, then it becomes [scattered] debris. And in the Hereafter is severe punishment and forgiveness from Allah and approval. And what is the life of this world, but a deceptive enjoyment?”

 ** Entry By Donation ( Minimum RM 10)**

Sheikh ZAHIR MAHMOOD biodata (according to
This erudite scholar was born in England and has gained licenses to teach (ijaazas) in many Islamic sciences including Qur'an, Jurisprudence (Fiqh) and Traditions (Hadith) of The Prophet (SAW) from various Shyukh. Following the completion of his secular studies at the age of 16, he enrolled at Dar al-Uloom al-Arabiyya al-Islamiyya, Bury (a satellite college to al- Azhar University), where he initiated his studies of the Alimiya course. Thereafter, he studied 3 years in the presitigious seat of learning al-Jamia al- Islamiyya Karachi, Pakistan.

Saturday, September 15, 2012


Over the years YMP has had many events. Fortunately we have been able to record some and put them on the internet. Here is what we have available.

Ramadan Series 2012
Ramadan Gems - The ups and downs of iman - Lauren Booth
Ramadan Series 2012 - Lauren Booth
Ramadan Series - What Ramadan means to me
LEPAK Reunion - Words of Wisdom from Sheikh Yahya Ibrahim

Reboot yourself this Ramadan - Sheikh Yahya Ibrahim - KGPA 17th July 2012
Reboot yourself this Ramadan

LEPAK Initiative - Yahya Ibrahim. Janda Baik 6th to 9th July 2012
Sheikh Yahya Ibrahim's Guide to the Galaxy
Sheikh Yahya Ibrahim Went on a Date?
If you want to be Wali with Allah
Every team needs a captain
Fajr Tazkirah - 7 Principles of Lailahaillallah (Part 3)
Fajr Tazkirah - 7 Principles of Lailahaillallah (Part 2)
Fajr Tazkirah - 7 Principles of Lailahaillallah (Part 1)
Campfire Stories
The Young Padawan
What's the Big Idea?

The Beauty of Jannah - Dr Reda Bedeir - Masjid Abu Bakar As-Sidiq 1st Dec 2011
Jannah - Dr Reda Bedeir
Jannah - Dr Reda Bedeir (Q&A Part 1)
Jannah - Dr Reda Bedeir (Q&A Part 2)

Balance - Sheikh Yahya Ibrahim - KGPA
Balance - Sheikh Yahya Ibrahim

In the Shade of Ramadan - Sheikh Yahya Ibrahim - KGPA 18th July 2011 (with Muslim Professionals Forum)
Part 1
Part 2

Ramadan - Life in the Fast Lane - IIUM Main Mosque 13th July 2011
Fiqh of Siyam - Sheikh Tawfique Chowdhury
This Ramadan Turn Off your Autopilot - Sheikh Muhammad Cheppih

Need for Speed - Race to Allah - KGPA 7th July 2011
Race to Allah - Sheikh Sajir Umar

I want to repent but...- Imam Suhaib Webb - 13th January 2011 KGPA
What is repentance?
What is it we repent from?
The way to Siratulmustaqim
The repentence of Abu Nuwas
The first reason why some people fail to make Tawbah
Where does Tawbah start?
Kindness beautifies whatever it touches & Tawbah starts with Allah
The second reason why some people faily to make Tawbah
Rectification of Negligence
The third reason why some people fail to make Tawbah
Sign of a Health Repentance

What is this my last Ramadan? - Imam Suhaib Webb
Part 1
Part 2
Part 3
Part 4
Part 5
Part 6
Part 7
Part 8
Part 9

Now that we've found Islam, what are we going to do about it?
(Part of the Knowledge and Arts Tour 2009)
Part 1
Part 2
Part 3
Part 4
Part 5
Part 6
Part 7
Part 8
Part 9
Part 10
Part 11
Part 12
Part 13
Part 14
Part 15
Part 16

Public Service Announcements
CSI Heroes - You can be one too!
Solidarity Syria

Monday, July 16, 2012

Ways Young Muslims can participate in Ramadan

by Ashley Burke

Adolescents that have reached puberty are encouraged to take part in Ramadan traditions such as prayer and fasting. Younger children can still celebrate this special event and continue to learn more about it even though they are not fasting with the others. In this post I want to suggest a few ways that young Muslims can participate in Ramadan without fasting:

Create educational games that teach about Islam
Games are a great way to make religious education and instruction enjoyable. Accumulate a listing of questions and answers about Islam and have the children memorize the answers. Then create various games using the questions and answers. As older family members enjoy sharing their knowledge with the younger children, and younger children desire to demonstrate what they have learned, a positive anchor is developed and the children begin to enjoy the process of learning about Islam.

Tuesday, July 10, 2012

July Happenings with Sheikh Yahya Ibrahim [UPDATED]


(We've added two talks. Scroll down)

If you had the misfortune of missing out L.E.P.A.K youth retreat don't worry. Sheikh Yahya Ibrahim is still in town and will be in and about KL. He's looking to meet YOU!

Catch his talks:

11th July (Wednesday)
Masjid Al-Hidayah, Jalan Melawati 6, Taman Melawati
Recording with TV9
230-330pm 'Recovering from Hardship'
530-630pm 'When A Man Loves a Woman'

13th July (Friday) Khutbah Jumaat at IIUM Islamic Institute of Banking and Finance, Jln Damansara 'The Importance of Muslim Solidarity in Dealing with the Challenges Facing the Ummah'

16th July (Monday), 8pm
Mukha Cafe, No. 15 Lorong Rahim Kajai 13, Taman Tun Dr Ismail
'Yahya Ibrahim's Guide to the Galaxy'
**Limited space**

17th July (Tuesday), 830pm
Kelab Golf Perkhidmatan Awam (KGPA), off Jalan Bukit Kiara
'Reboot Yourself This Ramadhan'

18th July (Wednesday), After Maghrib
Surau An Nur Taman Dagang, Jalan Dagang 1/4, Ampang
'Making the Best Out of Ramadhan'

20th July (Friday) Khutbah Jumaat at Surau Wakaf Ahmad Dawjee Dadabhoy Menara Bank Islam Jalan Perak (near KLCC)

See you there!

Wednesday, June 13, 2012

What would the Prophet (SAWS) do?

Our beloved Prophet is the best of mankind. How better to become better human beings than by learning from his seerah? "What would the Prophet (SAWS) do?" will be a regular monthly circle where we will have the opportunity to pose moral dilemmas and explore personal, and contemporary social issues and problems and solve them in light of the guidance extracted from our Prophet's SAWS life.

It will be moderated by Sheikh Younus Kathrada, a South-African born Canadian Imam, Islamic Studies teacher, community and youth activist, counsellor, chaplain, and public speaker. A graduate of the Islamic University of Madinah, he has spent over 16 years intensely involved in the Muslim community of Mainland British Columbia, Canada.

"If you were with the Prophet SAWS right now, what would you like to ask him?"

Date: 17th June 2012
Time: 2pm
Venue: 4 Jalan Setiabudi, Bukit Damansara, Kuala Lumpur

For directions please call Cat at 0166973097

Sunday, May 27, 2012

The L.E.P.A.K. Initiative- With Sheikh Yahya Ibrahim- 6-8th July 2012- Janda Baik

The L.E.P.A.K Initiative

The L.E.P.A.K Initiative is a weekend youth camp organized by the Young Muslims Project and the Muslim Professional Forum. The targeted individuals for this camp are Muslim youths from the urban area of Kuala Lumpur, Damansara, Petaling Jaya and etc. 

The word L.E.P.A.K is a Malaysian lingo for the word Chill and is more than often used for something that is slightly more relaxed, informal, and a good time. The L.E.P.A.K Initiative aims to incorporate Leadership, Encouragement, Power, Adab, and Knowledge (L.E.P.A.K) into the word Lepak over the course of the weekend.

Each day of the camp different values from the word L.E.P.A.K would be addressed along with a topic to help direct the lecture/discussion. We will also be having open dialogues, a BBQ and fun in the outdoors.

Day 1: Knowledge

Day one we will begin with the theme of Knowledge since the basis of any faith should be knowledge and not just blindly believing. The first Surah that was sent is Al-Iqra and that revelation itself should be enough to emphasize on how important knowledge is.

a) Knowledge
Topic: What’s the Big Idea?

In more often than once we find ourselves looking around us with the things happening and we look up asking ‘What’s the Big Idea?’ We tend to use all sorts of logic based on the very little knowledge we have to make sense of things without realizing Allah’s knowledge is so vast than we can possibly imagine or understand. Although we may not be able to fully understand the extent of Allah’s knowledge but we may gather enough knowledge in the Dunya to create an understanding to accept the fact that there’s more than meets the eye.

Day 2: Adab and Power

b)    Adab
Topic: Young Padawan

The Prophet S.A.W during his time had a lot of companions who were very young and some of them were children when they followed in his foot steps. It is good for the young generation today to take examples from the youths that had followed the foot steps of the Prophet.

Some of them became Imam of prayers, community leaders and commanded armies at such a young age and how can we emulate these achievements. The camp participants would perhaps appreciate it if they can see that the young people during the Prophet’s time had issues just as big or maybe even bigger issues than the one’s they face on a daily basis in our times today.

However their attitude in dealing with the issues at hand was what lead them to becoming the awesome Young Padawan’s during the Prophet’s time. A revival of such attitude in today’s youth is much needed.

c)    Power:
Topic: Axis of Power

The main idea of this discussion of this theme is to discuss the power of Iman or faith and how it goes a long way in our lives. As clichĂ© as it may sounds but once a person gains faith they can do wonders with it. However there’s always the question of does one obtain Iman and once that is done what would be the best way to maintain it.

It would be best to make this part of the program a sharing session among the camp participants to share their story of how their Iman with Allah has helped them with the little things in life. This could give the participants that realization that Allah is with us at every step of the way. Good or bad and that all we have to do is turn to him for guidance and help in all our daily affairs.

Day 3: Encouragement and Leadership
d)    Encouragement:
Topic: New Hope

When the Prophet S.A.W first started spreading the word of Islam and the Quran he started with words of encouragement. He gained the trust of the people and it was only later talks of things that are Haram and Halal came about. At this point his followers were already fired up by the encouragement to believe in Allah and to lead live to it’s full by doing good they did not struggle as much as people would expect them to keep the Halal close and Haram far.

The youth today, especially those who grew up in urban areas are in urgent need of this form of encouragement to live their lives. The Prophet did more than just bring a few rulings here and there to the people but he brought a New Hope for the people to lead better lives and to become better people. With everything that’s happening around us a sense of hope would always be good to keep around and whether you’re young or old that is very crucial to have in life.

e)    Leadership
Topic: Every Team Needs a Captain

The youths during the Prophet’s time was the driving force of the Ummah as they took charge over their roles and responsibilities within the community. All of them were leaders in their own rights. Even those who was not necessarily a team leader they were leaders of their own lives at least and they played their roles well no matter how small or big it was they would always give out their best.

Today we need to reinforce the youth that they should take ownership of their duties over their lives, family, and the community around them. It is a privilege to be serving Allah at such a young age and although the youth may constantly struggle to strive in doing their best to serve Allah and those around them it is a struggle they should never give up. 

End of camp.


What are you waiting for?

Email or call Sister Jenna at +6012 318 7227 for the application form and get yourself, your family and friends registered now!

P/S: The Camp can only accomodate around 60-70 pax comfortably and seats are being taken up as you read this. So please hurry up with your registration so that you can be part of the L.E.P.A.K. Initiative.

You can also visit us at facebook at:

The L.E.P.A.K. Initiative
(YMP and MPF)

Sunday, May 6, 2012

"A Note of Love to All My Single Girlfriends" by Zarina Ibnatu Zul Mukhshar

This was written by one of our Core Members which we thought we should share with you all J

"A Note of Love to All My Single Girlfriends"
by Zarina Ibnatu Zul Mukhshar

Last night my husband & I went for grocery shopping and we bought not-so-glamorous stuffs for the house like floor cleaner, cooking oil & rice; and then it struck me that we’re so married! Hehe... Alhamdulillah… It got me thinking of the things that I would do instead last night if I was still single; and it reminds me of my single friends who (I assume) like me once – waiting, hoping & looking for Mr. Right. Yes, I was all that, waiting, hoping & looking, and now when Allah sends my husband to me,for me, it happened so quickly, so fast, we were married within two-and-a-half months after the first day we laid eyes on each other! How did it happen? It’s Allah’s decree, no doubt. Alhamdulillah..

Before I deep-dive further into my marriage, I feel that I need to do my part to share with you bits and pieces of advice on the journey of finding ‘the one’. Please take this from my own experience and observation and it is not anyway to be treated like 'the checklist', but I think it will help insyaAllah.

#1 – Be Fair

A friend of mine told me that ‘we’ll get who we deserve’, and many years later I realized and come to my wisdom that it’s true; and to me, it’s even written in the Quran that: “…women of purity are for men of purity, and men of purity is for women of purity” – Qur’an 24:26. So ladies, before we list down our criteria in a man that we’re looking for, like “Dia mestilah seorang yang bertanggung jawab, beriman & menghormati orang tua etc., do reflect again are we all that in the first place? Are we responsible? Are we pious? Are we respectful to the elders?

#2 – Hook Up with Allah & Allah will Hook You Up

We are Muslims. And we know that Allah is the Creator and He holds our future, our life. And only from Him we could be guided to find the one, the right one, the good one. So do check out this great article on the explanation of Hook Up with Allah & Allah will Hook you Up. I hold this concept true to my heart during my single days and hopefully you'll find it beneficial too insyaAllah.

#3 – Be Proactive

When I and a few other friends were single, we are inspired by the story of our Mother of the Believers, Khadijah Binti Khuwailid r.a. There is an article on it, which is “Just Because Khadijah Ask” and one of the excerpts in the article says:

“Khadijah asked. Khadijah, may Allah’s Mercy be upon her, asked about Prophet Muhammad for marriage. She initiated the communication. She sent someone on her behalf to find out if he was available for marriage. And it was because she asked, that she got that blessed answer. And with that answer, was the beginning of the of the greatest stories of love for all times, and also one of the greatest examples of a true muhsina and mumina. A woman older than him, previously married with children, was inquiring about a younger bachelor, from one of the best tribes in town.  The honor of his acceptance wasn’t just hers alone. It was his too. He was going to marry one of the most beautiful hearts in all of Mecca. A woman who’s heart would sacrifice everything she had to support him, and Islam. Khadijah asked.”

Check out this website for the article:

I’m not saying just get out there and ask any male passers-by if they’re single and looking; but be truthful to begin with. The next time your aunts asking you when you’re getting married?; instead of replying “I just want to focus on my career for now”, please remove your ego and say “I have not found one, why not you introduce me to someone Aunty? I am ready to settle down.” They will usually quickly think of someone for you, or the at least they will think of you when the next time any of her friends start asking for any single girls to marry their bachelor sons, and if that doesn't happen too, the very least they will stop asking you when and that will lift unnecessary pressure.

Besides that, be active in community service, environmental projects, language classes, or any halal activities of your interest. You’d tend to meet more people outside your regular circle of friends, and raise the possibilities of meeting the one; and best of all he will share the same interest as you. Sharing the same interest is always a good thing to begin with.

#4 – He will be the Father of Your Children

I went for a talk by Yunus Kathrada, he told us a story of a man who went to see a Syeikh to seek advice on his newborn child. Which is good to always seek advice, but the Syeikh responded to the man “It’s too late”. Why? The Syeikh said that the process of raising an excellent child begins even before we get married - by selecting a good spouse to begin with. I have heard stories about girl meets boy at Hard Rock CafĂ©, at Zouk nightclub and what else have we. I cannot say that couples met at all these places would be heading to a crappy marriage, but think about it. Don’t we all want a good beginning for our union that would bear us pious and righteous kids in the future?

For a very good lecture on this, please YouTube search this: "mufti menk parent~child relationship"

Maybe what I'm trying to say is, all human are born with a fitrah, an innate feeling of returning to the Almighty Allah. No matter how naughty we are at a point of our lives, at the back of our heads I'm sure we'll be thinking "I will repent and return to Allah one day". But, if girl meets boy at nightclub, and then they get married, years later the girl feels like she wants to get closer to Allah while the boy still would like to party; then we'll see a problem when the girl and her kids starts going to religious classes and want to go for Umrah, while her husband refuse to even pray his solat. Tricky right? Let's think far, and choose wisely. 

Besides that, observe his temperament & his reaction towards children – the last thing you would want when you’re married with 3 kids crying in your arms, you ask for his help with the kids and he says.. “You know right honey, me and kids just don’t gel”…

#5 – Eliminate, Banish Your Baggage

I believe there is wisdom for free-mixing and dating is haraam in Islam. We all know that GF-BF concept is superficial; we will never get to know the true color of someone until we live with them – day in, day out. And the uglier side of this “dating” relationship is, it does not always have the happy ending. I have heard stories of a bride crying on her wedding day when her ex-boyfriend called her up for a last good bye, some still can’t get over their exes even after having children; some still secretly get in touch with their exes “just to ask “How have you been”?” subhanAllah… May Allah protect us from this.

If you still have issues or still cannot get over an ex, deal with it now. It will fog-up your path to find the one, and you will always have the shadow of your ex over your decision on moving on with another man. You would only want to have a vision of you and your husband and your kids in the future, and not the thought of “How would it be if I marry him instead?” Wise up, girls!

#6 – Be Selective, Not Picky

I believe there is a fine line between being selective and picky. To me, if you decline a proposal from a guy that is pleasing to the eyes, well mannered and has a stable income; but he smokes & you realized that he seldom attends Friday prayers, then yes you're being selective. But if you decline a proposal from a guy that is pleasing to the eyes, well mannered, has stable income, doesn't smoke, and is Allah-fearing, but he is a mommy's boy (or he's balding, or he has an interesting hobby of collecting dried leaves) then you're being picky.

Key thing to remember here “Deal Breaker”. If he has or lacks of certain pivotal quality/characteristic that you cannot live with/without then it is big reason not to marry him. For example, if you know you're a career driven person and have major career ambitions but your potential husband wants you to eventually quit your job to look after the kids then that's the “Deal Breaker”. But please do not confuse deal breaker with differences. For example, if you like to eat Japanese and hates Italian food but he cannot bear the thought of eating raw fish but loves pasta, this is not deal breaker. Both of your can still work around differences and it is silly to have a big fight over which restaurant to go have dinner. But “Deal Breakers” are something that could most likely put a strain in a marriage in which failing to manage could lead to divorce. See the significance?

However, please try not to overanalyze and being hypercritical. Another key thing to remember is: Nobody Is Perfect, and no sayang, not even you.

#7 – Be Ready to Give (Up)

Marriage is not all about sex. It's not all about him showering you with endless love and affection. It's not all about cuddling & curling up together in the bed every night. Yes, it is all that, but it is not all and everything about that. It's not all about you! Marriage needs sustenance, and it does not come for free, you need to work for it. You need to give. Just like how we expect our men to know manly stuffs like how to change the car tyre when it punctures or know to repair a leaking pipe or how to assemble a DIY baby cot; I'm sure men would also expect the wives to know womanly stuffs like how to cook, how to do laundry properly and perhaps iron man's work clothes.

Of course most of us could say that it's the modern world now, women don't need to know how to cook and clean and that we can get a maid to do all that. But would you really want to get a maid to cook your husband's meals & iron your husband's work shirts? I know it's easier said than done, but who say that to maintain a happy marriage is effortless & easy?

Ready to give, includes being ready to give up. Do you have male friends who you often hang with, or who to you “we're just friends?” or “we've been friends for so long he's like a brother to me”? Guess what? After you're married, I would need to advice you to give them up like a bad habit. I know along the years we have made so many friends including guy friends, but once we're married we CANNOT hang out with them anymore. I am not saying we cannot be friends anymore, but it is with a lot of limitation. I trust that you would use your wisdom on how to draw the line. Even though you future husband is the “coolest” guy on earth (and Allah forbids) he allows you hang out with any of your guys friends, once you're being seen by other people hanging out with another guy other than your husband, you've lit a spark for fitnah and speculation which will spread like wildfire. Imagine a neighbour saw you walking with your male friend at a mall, and she tells your mother in-law. High voltage drama huh?

Trust. Could take years to build, but only a minute to destroy.

#8 - It's Him Not His Money

So, he drives a BMW and earns RM20k a month? OR. So, he drives his father's first car and don't really have a proper job? BUT I say So what?

Often times girls will look for a man that is wealthy and rich - that's completely common. Its a biological and psychological thing. We need look for men that can "hunt & gather" to provide security, shelter and food to take care of us and our young. It's a survival thing.

However, either he is rich or broke; he is actually rich or broke NOW. Who are we to say that their wealth will be there forever, or that they will earn very little money for lifetime? The key point to stress, is his deen (iman) & character. Does he have the right knowledge and iman to guide you and your young. Does he have maturity and good character to endure the challenges of the world and maried life? I am not saying, go into marriage blindly but please use your wisdom and not your desire. He may not have much today, but if you see that he has the willpower to work hard to earn a better living and you believe with all your heart that Allah is All Provider, insyaAllah you'll be fine.

For me, during the ta'aruff (introduction meeting) with my then-not-yet-husband, I asked him about his education. To me and maybe to a lot of parents education is key. Personally, I don't mind if he is a burger flipper at Ramly Burger (he's not by the way), but if he has a qualification, or a degree or something, insyaAllah he has something to fall back on. I didn't ask him about how much he's earning or anything like that, because it's not important to me. Have faith in Allah that He is The All Provider.

From Umar ibn Al-Khattab from the Prophet (sas) who said:

"If only you relied on Allah a true reliance, He would provide sustenance for you just as He does the birds: They fly out in the morning empty and return in the afternoon with full stomachs."
Ahmad, An-Nasaa’I, Ibn Majah, Al-Hakim and At-Tirmidhi who said: "Hassan sahih"

#9 – Know the Rights of Husband & Obligations of Wife, Vice Versa.

A lot of us dreams of getting married one day to wear nice dress on the wedding day. But after the wedding day is over a whole new world of responsibilities await you and him. Both husband and wife has a list of responsibilities within the Islamic guidelines. Read them up, study them. By abiding to this guidelines, almost certainly we can maintain a happy marriage by the will of Allah.
But often, during tense and trying times the husband and wife would usually accuse each other of not full filling his/her rights. For example the husband would say “You should beautify yourself for me and not look like a mess at home!”; and the wife would say something like “You're supposed to provide a home for us, but we been living with your housemate for months now!”

A key guideline to this is to prioritize your obligations as a wife and to respect the rights of the husband. And vice versa of course. Know your obligations, what you should do, your responsibilities BEFORE thinking about your rights, his obligations, what he should do and his responsibilities.

So now.. can you manage to fulfill all your obligations? Are you such a strong-headed person that would be able to listen to your husbands advice? Do you have the right attitude to be kind to your husband? Do you still think that after you're married you can do whatever you want and allow anybody into your house without your husband's permission? What would you do if you have a long tiring day at work but you need to fulfill your husband's physical desire? Do you have the right motivation to beautify yourself (at home) to be pleasing to his eyes with your appearance? Basically, do we have the right mindset to strive to be a good wife? Or do we still think it's all about me, me, me?

Please ponder on this hadith:

Qays ibn Sa'd Narrated: I went to al-Hirah and saw them (the people) prostrating themselves before a satrap (governor of a province in ancient Persia) of theirs, so I said: The Apostle of Allah (peace_be_upon_him) has most right to have prostration made before him. When I came to the Prophet (peace_be_upon_him), I said: I went to al-Hirah and saw them prostrating themselves before a satrap of theirs, but you have most right, Apostle of Allah, to have (people) prostrating themselves before you. He said: Tell me , if you were to pass my grave, would you prostrate yourself before it? I said: No. He then said: Do not do so. If I were to command anyone to make prostration before another I would command women to prostrate themselves before their husbands, because of the special right over them given to husbands by Allah. [Hadith: Sunan Abu Dawud, 11:2135]

Heavy. I know... :(

But marriage is such a pure & beautiful thing that if we fulfill every obligations for the sake of Allah, we shall be rewarded for every effort insyaAllah.

Ibn Hibban narrated that the Prophet(Sallallahu alaiyhi wassallam) said, “If a woman prayed five prayers, fasted in Ramadan, protected her honor and obeyed her husband; then she will be told (on the Day of Judgment): enter Paradise from any of its(eight) doors.”

insyaAllah...Yeay!! :D

#10 – It is the Marriage, Not the Wedding

I think we heard countless times that engaged couples are putting off marriage because they do not have enough money to hold the wedding. If you're imagining a wedding with rotating wedding cake, nasi minyak lobster menu, tents decorated with thousands of tulips from Amsterdam, and haute couture wedding dress - then no wonder why you need to put off your wedding.

But my dears, it's really not all about the wedding. Some of my friends asked me whether it was the happiest day of my life; I had a little trouble answering that because leading after the wedding is what matters more to me. The whole lifetime with this person that you should treat him as part of you; and build a family with children whom are the coolness of our eyes. InsyaAllah.. and that thought itself could make one very happy.

It's not about the wedding stuffs. I remember people who attended my wedding and the precious moments. How I was overwhelmed with emotions when my dad hug me tightly before the akad nikah & my mom whispered "you'll always be my baby" during the akad nikah ceremony. And the happiest thing I could remember on my wedding day was holding his hand for the very first time. That was surreal, I loved it so much. See? I don't remember much about the wedding stuffs; although they're really nice - the dress, the pelamin, the bunga telur, Alhamdulillah, but I don't remember that time and again.  I always have this theory, the longer it takes to prepare a wedding the harder it gets to let the wedding itself go... After 1 year (or even more) of preparing, it will all be over in 2 days, and you'd go.. "That's it? That's The wedding?" So please, once you have met the right person to marry, go ahead with it – quickly.

So there you go. A little note of love from the quite newly married me to all my single sisters. I always make du'a for Allah to hasten the jodoh for all my single sisters with a pious and great men who will be the coolness of their eyes. Please make loads of du'a for yourselves too. Never lose hope in the mercy of Allah.  “Hook up with Allah and Allah will hook you up”, remember? :)
A wife is like a gift to a man. And there is a hadith that goes like this:

"This world is just temporary conveniences, and the best comfort in this world is righteous women.” - Sahih Muslim 10/56.

So prepare yourself to be a gift (and not a test) to your future husband, so that one day he will hold you and look lovingly in your eyes and say “Alhamdulillah”.


Please make doa for me.

Zarina Ibnatu Zul Mukhshar
Thursday, March 29, 2012 at 8:40pm

Thursday, April 19, 2012

"The Day of Games!"

Come one, come all, for a day of fun and excitement as YMP invites you to join us for another funtivity series,

"The Day of Games!"

Relax, unwind, and choose from a variety of games ranging from simple board and card games, to challenging puzzle and trivia games, and even engaging role-playing games over at FnD Mindspot. Come on down and join the fun with your friends and make new ones here as well!

Date: Saturday, 5th May 2012
Time: 3pm til late (Join us for a while, or stay for the entire day!)
Venue: FnD Mindspot, Taman Tun Dr Ismail
Price: RM10 per person**




For enquiries, please contact
Hijaz - 017 319 7833
Wawan - 012 475 4456

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Friday, April 13, 2012

The Zaaba Talk - Solidarity Syria, Sunday, 15th April 2012 at 11am - 1pm.


The civil war in Syria has reached a boiling point. With no workable resolution, the war still continues. In the meantime, on the ground, a whole civilisation is in destruction.

YMP has joined in the growing international voice against this war. Carefully sidestepping the political mine bombs, this Campaign is vehemently clear on their objective - Pressure the leaders to stop the killing of the Syrian people!

Join us as the Campaign manager, Haris Akram, shares with us his vision, hope and expectations.

We'll also have special guests; 2 Syrian students to share the plight of their families and friends back home. Listen and understand their experience undergoing all these challenges and what they're doing to make things better.


Venue: Pusat Tuisyen Elit Maju
Address: 19-2 Jalan 2A/6, Taman Setapak Indah, 53330 KL
Time: Registration @ 10.30am

There'll be a small registration fee of RM5

See you there!!

What you can also do:

1) Visit Solidarity Syria's facebook page at and "Like" it.

Solidarity Syria! is an online Facebook campaign by YMP to publicize the violence in Syria.  This group is to show our support for the Syrian people via online activism. YMP also opposes any sort of military intervention in the Syrian Crisis, our goal is to end the violence by any peaceful means possible!

We invite all groups of people, irrespective of their religion, skin color, racial background and nationality to "Like" this page, so that we may achieve our objectives. Please visit our Facebook page ( to learn more!

2)  Messages of support: We are requesting video messages of support from the Malaysian People to the Syrian people. If you have something to shout out to your Syrian brothers and sisters, please follow the instructions below:

-Use a video recording device; digital camera, video camera, camera phone, etc
-Find a quiet setting with good lighting; house, classroom, office, etc
-Imagine you have a Syrian friend who's facing difficulties in his country.
-Record a message of hope, encouragement, and support to the friend.
-The recording should not take more than 60seconds.
-Email the recording to
-Look out for an update on the Solidarity Syria Facebook Page 

Over 7000 people, men, women and children have been killed in Syria since the uprising began last year. Since the morning of the 4th of March 2012 over mortar rounds and 500 mm machine gun have been fired into Jobar, a city in Syria by the Syrian army against civilians.

Stand up and let the Syrian regime know, that the world is watching and mobilizing! If this helps to save even one Syrian life then all of this will be worth it! We talk about terrorism, what is a worse form of terrorism than killing your people! 


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