Tuesday, May 24, 2011

From "I Love You" to "I Divorce You"?

An old post from a YMP Council Member Daniel... better late than never right? :)


Daniel and his wife Mariam are founding members of YMP. Last year they welcome their son, Isa.

Daniel is a photographer whose beautiful photos can be found at his website www.danielzain.com or his blog http://danielzainphotography.blogspot.com.




Assalamu'alaikum,

Alhamdulillah with the arrival of Isa into our lives, Mariam & I couldn't be more thankful to Allah (SWT) for the blessings he has given us.

An important step in the life of any adult Muslim is the day he/she gets married. Subhanallah I know some of you are already in the process of looking for a spouse, and some of you may already be a few steps closer to tying the know than I may be aware of ;)

As a wedding photographer, my job is to document that special moment when two people become husband & wife. Alas, in almost 4 years of doing this full time, several of my clients are no longer husband & wife. Several of my university friends have also gone down the road of divorce. Sometimes the reasons for divorce are complicated while some have parted ways over seemingly trivial issues. I've had the opportunity to speak to some of them during their trying moments & after their divorce. Could some of these divorces have been avoided if the couples had done something simple prior to getting married?

That simple thing is: Ask important questions before you get married!

Tuesday, May 17, 2011

Why Lah So Many Rules? with Sheikh Younus Kathrada


Salam everyone!

Have you ever wondered why there are so many rules and regulations in Islam? Is Islam all about these rules and leave no room for flexibility? Is belief in Allah and His messenger not enough?

A large number of Muslims today learn all the rules in Islam, but hardly learn the wisdom behind them. Even worse, some are discouraged from questioning Islam and its teachings. Join us as we bring you a special Open Circle with Sheikh Younus Kathrada from Canada.

Sheikh Younus is a South-African born Canadian Imam, Islamic Studies teacher, community and youth activist, counselor, chaplain, and public speaker. A graduate of the Islamic University of Madinah, he has spent over 16 years intensely involved in the Muslim community of Mainland British Columbia, Canada. He is currently working and residing in Malaysia.

Sheikh Younus on Facebook: http://www.facebook.com/pages/Younus-Kathrada/138111512882572

When? Sunday, 22 May 2011, 3-5 PM
Where? 3-14-5 the residence coNDOMInium,
Jln wan kadir 5, Taman Tun Dr Ismail,
Kuala Lumpur (GoogleMap)

See you there!

Tuesday, May 10, 2011

Addiction: The End?


Salam,

Alcohol, drugs, porn etc are forbidden in Islam. So technically, there's no such thing as a Muslim addict right? 

Wrong. There are Muslim addicts and alcoholics all around us. We all have to stop being in denial and face this very real problem now before it spirals out of control. 

But how does addiction happen? What is that turning point when all hell breaks loose and people lose control? Can it happen to any of us? Can we only be addicted to substances and pornography or are there other things that we don't realise?

Is there a way out?

Catch the Open Circle this Sunday for this one of a kind discussion that will surely knock some sense into us and get us thinking InsyaAllah.

Special guest: Sister Azra Banu

See you there!

Friday, April 22, 2011

Chillin' Out @ Chiling Falls!! - CALLED OFF

Due to unforseen circumstances the above event has been called off. Allah knows best. We apologise for any inconvenience caused.

Stay tuned to find out about our next event.

Friday, April 15, 2011

Thank Allah it's Friday

Assalamualaikum,

Yes it is that the time of the week again - the time we greet Friday.

Allah ta'ala has picked some days in a year to be better than others. He also has picked some days in a week to be better than other days. Friday no doubt is a special day, selected by Allah ta'ala to be special as a mercy to all of us.

It is narrated in Sahih Muslim:


Abu Hurayra reported that the Messenger of Allah, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, said, "The best day on which the sun has risen is Friday. On it Adam was created and on it he was admitted to the Garden and on it he was expelled from it."

So how do we treat the coming of this special day? Do we value our weekends' rest more? Are we as excited about the coming of Friday? Don’t let Friday just be the day before the weekend.

It is also narrated:
Abu Hurayra reported that the Prophet, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, said, "The five prayers and from one Jumu'a to another and one Ramadan to another expiate what is between them if major sins are avoided." [Muslim]

When Allah ta'ala promises Friday to be a day of forgiveness, we can't just sit down and allow it to pass by us. We must grab the opportunity to seek for His forgiveness for all our heedlessness and shortcomings. It's our moment to make up for the week and rejuvenate our Imaan so that we can be better servants.

Friday is upon us and let's make this Friday our best Friday yet. This process of self development is important so that we improve every Friday. With this cycle inshaAllah our steady improvement will make our last days of our lives our best days.

So what can we do?


  1. Firstly make sure you read Surah Al-Kahfi and reflect on it.
  2. Wake up for tahajud even for two rakaats.
  3. Send your peace and blessings upon our prophet Muhammad (Peace be upon him)
  4. Ask for forgiveness from Allah taala
  5. Take your morning sunnah bath.
Lastly it is narrated:

Abu Hurayra reported that the Messenger of Allah, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, said, "Anyone who does ghusl on the day of Jumu'a, the same as for janaba, and then goes in the first part of the time, it is as if he has sacrificed a camel. If he goes in the second part of the time, it is as if he has sacrificed a cow. If he goes in the third part of the time, it is as if he has sacrificed a horned ram. If he goes in the fourth part of the time, it is as if he has sacrificed a hen. If he goes in the fifth part of the time, it is as if he has sacrificed an egg. When the Imam comes out, the angels settle down to listen to the reminder." [Agreed upon]

So in other words the earlier you get to the mosque, the angels will be waiting to write down your name for a bigger reward. Let’s apply this beautiful Sunnah. Don’t reach the mosque for Friday prayers just before the khatib starts the khutbah. Be excited about grabbing the abundant rewards of a Friday. Get to the mosque early. In fact try to be the first person to be at the mosque to get the highest reward.

Have a great Friday everyone.

Khairul
President of YMP

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